But that ain't possible,there is nothing like perfect relationship on this earth...Even in the movies both partners go through difficult times when dating,Romeo and Juliet's relationship was not perfect,neither was Raj and Simran's relationship.So friends,don't think that you will be the first to have a perfect date even if you are rich and famous.
I always advice my friends that for a relationship to be Perfect then it should not be perfect.So now we gonna learn about the "The things to know before we Date". I have listed below six(6) things you should know before you get into the Dating Game
THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE YOU START DATING
1.It Changes As It Develops:At first dating is kind of "Perfect"...I know you are confuse because I earlier said that,there is nothing like "Perfect Dating",yeah i did say that, but when Dating is at it early stage,everything seems perfect.The guy sends flowers to the lady,both partners spends most of their time going out on dates,texting each other even when they are at work and other sweet things.Is this not Perfect? But the problem here is that,all these things do not last for long,it might last for a month or a year..but not forever.Its just like how humans operate,when we are kids,there are things that we love(toys,cartoons,video games etc) But when we are mature,those things do not matter again because we have responsibilities to take care of.That is how Dating also works,as times goes on, it matures and some of the things are left out.So it changes as it develops and that shows how matured both partners are.
2.Keep The Distance:Why should i keep the distance? I need him/her by my side...Yeah,you need him/her by your side but do you always want to see him/her everyday in a week,I don't think so because that kind of relationship will fade really fast.So you have to give yourselves the space,distance yourselves for at least a day or two,and trust me,the fire in your relationship will keep burning.When you distance yourselves from each other, you activate the "I Miss You" in yourself,hence, it keeps the relationship new and interesting as it was in it early stage.
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3.Be Yourself:Before somebody wants to date you,then he/she must have discovered something interesting about you.It could be how beautiful you look,because you are popular,because of how sociable you are and sometimes because you posses certain abilities such as singing,dancing blah...blah...blah.Now when you begin to date,somewhere along the road,the other partner can complain about these interesting things that he/she claimed to have loved about you when the whole Dating Game started.And from here,things become a little bit complicated because you have to let go some of the things that you love.So pal,before you get yourself into the Dating Game,be ready to face problems such as these,cos they are sure come your way.
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4.Respect:Respect is very vital when it comes to Dating.This is because you need to be respected all the time,also you should respect your partner too.You should not by any chance let anyone make you feel inferior to them.If they make you feel insecure about anything, being it your education,your career,physical appearance and emotional.Then they ain't worth having you as their date,hense you've got to make a decision.
You should date someone who will not treat you badly.That person should help lift you up and support you in every little that he/she can,not somebody who picks on your weakness and makes fun of you.You really deserve it.
5.There Is A Chance Of Break Up:Sure,there is 80% chance that the relationship will break up someday.Your date will not be the same in years to come.So when you wanna get into the Dating Game always remember that somewhere along the road things might go wrong,and you will to let each other go.But when this happens,it should be in a more civilized manner.You should not fight neither should you let the break up come between both of you as friends.When you break up,nothing stops both of you from becoming friends...Its even much cool when you and your ex are still friends.
6.Love And Trust:These are the most important parts of the Dating Game.Love is like the ground on which the relationship is built on.When there is no love then surely there is no relationship too.So before you decide to go on the long trip of dating,you have to feel something for the other partner who is involve,and also that partner should also have the same feelings for you.Now that both of you have something in common,the next thing is Trust.Nowadays,most relationship fade out because there is either a little trust or no trust at all.Is quite funny when you see people who claim to be in a relationship without no trust.So if you wanna date,you have to love and trust your partner cos it is is very very necessary.Good luck.
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