Mistakes To Avoid When You Start A Fresh Date

There are some common mistakes that we often do when it comes to dating.Mistakes that we don't even realize and yet we do commit them before we even start dating,which .It is always said that "You Never Get A Second Chance To Make A First Impression Again" and that is true cos the "First Impression" that we make are very powerful and sharp like that of a Knight's sword.It makes all the difference between a successful encounter and a failed one.So in this article,we are going to reflect more on first impressions and the things that we disclose on a first date.


MAINTAIN YOUR INFORMATION BOUNDARIES:
Even though your long-term goal maybe to establish a trust. On a first date, you don’t have to be an open book, “Save Your Personal Informations For Later” when the foundation of trust and intimacy has been established. You should also know not to “Reveal Your Darkest Secrets” on a first date,cos whatever secret you reveal is going determine how long the relationship is going to last.

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CREATE A BALANCE BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU:

You should always aim for a peek in your dates life to determine the possibility of a second date. You should always listen your date and show interest. Likewise, you should also bring yourself honestly to the table by sharing what you want your date to know about you. You shouldn’t always wait for your date to run the show regardless of who initiated the meeting/date. Take control of asking questions that will give you insight into her life. It is always important to be mindful about your enquiries cos it could prompt your date to ask same questions of you………so try not to ask a question that you wouldn’t be willing to answer in return.

Be honest about the kind of partner you are looking for and what kind of partner you can be.

REVEAL YOUR STRENGTHS, NOT WEAKNESSES:

People always want what’s good about a potential partner. It will be okay to sell your positive sides, so long as you don’t seem boastful.Being boastful determines the kind of person you are,so when it comes to disclosing your strengths,always come clean and keep the boasting stuff for other time.Later you can reveal your weakness.

DO NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR EX (ES):

This is one of the common mistakes that we often commit when it comes to Dating and Relationship.We always make a mistake of discussing about Ex to our new dates.It is always best not to bring up the wrongs of your past relationships. Besides, you are looking to move forward not backwards,so why then should you talk about your past relationship to your new date.So now you know that talking about your ex(es) kills the trust that your new date has for you. 

 

DON’T MENTION YOUR FINANCES:

You want your date to get to know you better, your personalities, your beliefs, and values, and in return, find attractiveness in them, not your income earning potentials.Never make a mistake of revealing your finances to your fresh date,it will be better for you to keep your income earning potentials to yourself when your relationship is at it early stage.It will be good"To Be A Poor Provider And Lavish Lover" than "To Be A Lavish Provider And Poor Lover.You can probably disclose your financial information  as the relationship progresses.

 The next time you go out there to find a fresh Date,try to consider these factors,so that you can create a better relationship.Good Luck.